When the World Feels Heavy: Staying Grounded in Your Own Power
- Jennifer
- Jan 19
- 4 min read
There's a lot happening right now. You know what I'm talking about: the news cycles that never stop spinning, the global events that feel too big to process, and the collective anxiety that seems to seep through our screens and into our living rooms. It can feel overwhelming, like the weight of the world is pressing down on your shoulders.

Here's what I want you to know: you don't have to carry it all.
I'm not saying we should ignore what's happening around us or pretend the world isn't going through some intense shifts. Awareness matters. Compassion matters. But there's a critical difference between being informed and being consumed—between caring deeply and hemorrhaging your energy into situations you cannot directly control.
Think about it this way. Every moment you spend spiraling into anxiety about things happening thousands of miles away, things you have zero ability to influence in this exact moment, is a moment you're giving away your power. You're essentially handing over your internal state to external chaos, and that's not helping anyone, least of all yourself.
Staying grounded doesn't mean you don't care. It means you care enough about your own well-being to protect your energy so you can actually be useful. When you're depleted, anxious, and scattered, you're not in a position to help anyone. You're just adding more stress to an already stressed world.
So what does it actually look like to stay grounded when everything feels like it's falling apart?
First, get honest about what you can control. You can control your morning routine. You can control whether you doomscroll for three hours or take a walk instead. You can control the quality of your thoughts, the people you surround yourself with, and how you choose to respond to what life throws at you. That's not nothing. That's actually everything.
Second, remember that your energy is currency. Spend it wisely. Every time you engage with content that makes you feel powerless, every time you get sucked into arguments with strangers online, every time you refresh the news hoping for something different, you're spending your energy. Ask yourself: is this purchase worth it? Is this making me stronger, clearer, more capable? Or is it draining me dry?
Third, come back to your body. This is not some fluffy advice. Your body is your anchor. When your mind is spinning out into worst case scenarios and global catastrophes, your body is right here, right now, breathing. Feel your feet on the ground. Notice the temperature of the air. Take three deep breaths that actually fill your lungs. This isn't about bypassing your feelings; it's about remembering that you exist in this moment, in this body, and that you have the capacity to be present even when the world feels chaotic.
Fourth, do something tangible. If you feel called to help, then help in a way that's real and within your reach. Volunteer at a local organization. Check in on a neighbor. Donate to a cause that aligns with your values. Take action that feels meaningful and manageable, not performative or panic driven. Real action grounds you. It reminds you that you have agency.
And, finally, give yourself permission to step back. You are allowed to turn off the news. You are allowed to take a break from social media. You are allowed to protect your peace without guilt. The world will keep turning. The information will still be there when you return. But you will be more centered, more clear, and more capable of engaging with it from a place of strength rather than fear.
Here's the truth that nobody wants to say out loud: the world has always been chaotic. There has always been suffering, conflict, and uncertainty. What's different now is that we have front row seats to all of it, all the time, delivered directly to our pockets in real time. Our nervous systems were not designed for this level of input. We were designed to care deeply about our immediate community, not to absorb the pain of the entire planet every single day.
So if you're feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or like you're barely holding it together, that's not a personal failing. That's a very human response to an inhuman amount of information and stimulation.
The most radical thing you can do right now is to stay grounded in your own power—to recognize that your state of mind matters. Understand that when you are calm, centered, and clear, you are contributing something valuable to the collective energy of this planet. You are not being selfish. You are being strategic.
The world doesn't need more people spinning out in fear. It needs people who can hold steady, people who can think clearly, and people who can act from a place of intention rather than reaction. That starts with you taking care of your own energy, protecting your own peace, and refusing to give your power away to circumstances beyond your control.
You are not helpless. You are not powerless. You are here, now, in this moment, with the ability to choose how you show up. That choice—that small but mighty decision to stay grounded in your own center—is more powerful than you realize.
So take a breath. Feel your feet on the ground. Remember who you are. And know that by staying rooted in your own power, you're doing more good than you think.
The world needs you steady—not stressed, not scattered—steady.
You've got this.




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